By doing it gently, you will ride your guy for a long time without getting tired. When you are on top of him and in woman on top control, ask your man some questions. A good woman will ask her guy some dirty questions with a lot of confidence.
So come on, girls, it’s time to take the bull by the … Huh. That’s the best position for a girl and when you put your man down, make sure he relaxes while you take over and do the riding. When you work together, you get a more extended sex drive, and also you get to please your man. That sex is not for you only but both of you so you need to involve the guy fully. Yes, it does, but some girls are experts in riding their men and can ride any dick irrespective of its size.
Some of those who have borne great names as Nimrods in our hunting annals would as life have led a forlorn-hope as put a horse at a flight of hurdles. But they, too, are known; and though the nature of their delight is a mystery to straight-going men, it is manifest enough, that they do like it. They have an acknowledged system, and know what they are doing. But the men who don’t like it, have no system, and never know distinctly what is their own aim. During some portion of their career they commonly try to ride hard, and sometimes for a while they will succeed. In short spurts, while the cherry-brandy prevails, they often have small successes; but even with the assistance of a spur in the head they never like it. Ream said that he’s been back five or six times to the park since then, making sure to ride Orion every time that he’s there.
After all, your hair defines your feminism, and since man existed, a woman’s hair has been a significant factor during sexual intercourse. If he is not on top of you, how else will he feel your hair as you make love? While on top of him, and grinding, a guy can get aroused by seeing your hair all over your face. However, some guys prefer to look at your hair tied on the back. Bottom line, your hair will make your ride on the top more passionate. You got to be a cowgirl on him and make that guy understand you need to work together towards one goal. Most men prefer to go first until they are sweaty and tired.
Most men like it when their woman is vocal during sex because it shows that you are having a great time and he is providing that. So, you can ask him if he likes it when you moan and groan. If he does, make a point of being vocal during your steamy session.
But remember, the best sex happens when both partners are having the time of their lives. Here, some guys on Reddit give their tips for getting woman-on-top sex just right. Woman-on-top (or ‘Cowgirl’, or ‘The Rider’) is a classic sex position if you are a woman or have a vagina, and are sleeping with someone with a penis (or someone wearing a strap-on, TBH). You’ll also have to moderate for your endurance, ability to sustain a position, your motion, and support your own weight. If you need to knock it off or take a breather, slow down, make eye contact, touch hands, and, well, interact (sorry, not a great word for sexy times, but it covers what I’m talking about) with him. There are many sex positions that men love, so you try whatever is comfortable. You are in charge, but be careful with your man when you try to ride on him.
It’s not that you are in charge so the man can lie like a dead fish. Ask him if he would like to fold his knee or change posture. This position allows you to easily slide down and give him a blowjob too. From childhood, our brains have been tuned to suppress our emotions and not discuss our physical preferences. Sex is and will probably remain taboo, talking of what you like and don’t like during sex is still a hush-hush affair. However, as you ride on him, don’t ask him questions not related to sex or else he will get tired of you. You don’t have to worry about what he doesn’t want to hear; a good guy will just tell you.
However, as you ride it enthusiastically, don’t let it slip out because if it does, it might result in some painful injuries. Some claim they are afraid of embarrassing themselves, and others excuse themselves from their guys claiming that they are tired while some just admit that they don’t know how to ride. Well, some girls out there claim to be “bad bitches” in the bedroom, but if you can’t ride your man, you aren’t even half of that.
You can also do a slower version of a jump—an up and down pull up and stroke, that’s slow enough to ensure he’s always deep inside you when you land. It’s a little bit of a learned skill to ride a man until he comes—and begs you to keep going, and then to stop, and keep going again and then stop. It’s a wonderful, exuberant feeling to be in control and have total power over his orgasm. A woman riding a man is one of his HOTTEST fantasies and one thing he’s dying to do in bed if you haven’t already tried it. Riding a man is a completely different penetrative feeling then missionary, standing or side-by-side. Even the orgasm feels differently since you’re mostly the one creating the friction.
When you are on top, you get to control the speed, angle, and depth of penetration according to what feels best for you. This is a huge game-changer in how pleasurable intercourse feels to you.
My boobs are really small and I don’t want him to see my ‘jelly rolls’ either. Plus, I don’t even know any ‘moves’ to do on top really. During the begining of my sexual relationship with my boyfriend I didn’t get on top too much. I was afraid of how I looked, and I was afraid that I would chaif his thighs. Also, and this is complete honestly, I enjoyed laying down and seeing his body thrust into me too much to try to change the normal routine. However, after a couple of months, it became obvious that he wanted me to be on top more.